The mother of the bride gets photographed almost as often as the bride, for eight or more hours, often while hugging, dancing, and fixing someone's veil. So comfort decides it. Pick the dress you can lift your arms in, then pick the color.
Sleeves
You don't need long sleeves. Many mothers want some coverage, though. Sheer and puff sleeves give you coverage without the heat, and they still show up in photos.
- Stella Dress ($268, sizes 00 to 34). Sheer elastic puff long sleeves, navy with gold embroidery.
- Everbloom Dress ($248, sizes 00 to 34). Sheer 3/4 puff sleeves in teal. Size up.
- Cordelia Dress ($258, sizes XXS to 6X). Elastic puff sleeves in lavender. Consider sizing down.
Length
Match the length to the wedding's formality. Floor length suits evening or formal weddings. A midi suits daytime, garden, and casual weddings, and it's easier on a dance floor.
- Margaret Dress in Blue ($168, sizes XXS to 6X). An embroidered midi with shoulder bows. It also comes in black, dark green, and a maxi length.
- Iris Dress ($168, sizes XXS to 6X). A painterly floral midi with a faux wrap V-neck.
Color
Ask the couple for the wedding palette first. Then pick a shade that goes with the bridesmaids without matching them exactly. Navy, teal, dusty blue, and soft floral prints work at almost every wedding. Avoid white, ivory, and anything that reads as bridal.
- Charlotte Dress ($288, sizes 00 to 34). A blended sunset tone for bridal events and receptions.
- Monet Dress ($208, sizes XXS to 6X). A pastel floral maxi that works with most spring and summer palettes.
Fit tips
Order early enough to try the dress with your actual shoes and undergarments. If you're between sizes, size up. Every product page has its own chart and fit note, and the size guide covers measuring.
Common questions
Should the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom coordinate?
It's a nice touch, and it's easy to do. Agree on length and formality, and pick colors from the same palette.
Can the mother of the bride wear a print?
Yes. A soft floral is a good choice for garden and daytime weddings.
Do larger sizes cost more?
No. Every size is the same price.